To increase your songwriting ability it’s necessary to increase your life experience, and that means getting out of your comfort zone and embracing what life has to offer you.
Imagine having the confidence to fully experience life with the knowledge that there could be a great song awaiting as a result of the risk being taken. That’s a mighty powerful way of looking at life.
A prime example of a situation that can benefit from this way of thinking is the awkward beginnings of falling in love. So many people don’t take the risk of falling in love for the fear of getting hurt.
My argument is that if you are committed to songwriting as a way to experience life then it is your duty as a songwriter to take the risk and just go with it.
If it works then you have some great songs to write, if it doesn’t work then you still have some great songs to write with perhaps a bit of therapy thrown in for good measure.
With an attitude like that how can you lose?
Going out of your way to fully experience life doesn’t mean having to endure mammoth changes or extreme tragedy. It’s the little things that you can do to break the habits and routines of our lives that make all the difference.
Here are some other examples of little things you can do to get more out of life and therefore get more out of your songwriting.
- Go see a movie by yourself
- Take a long walk on the beach
- Go for a drive
- Call a friend you haven’t spoken too in ages
- Strike up a conversation with a complete stranger
- Catch public transport
- Go to a cafe and write (or start writing) in your journal
- Smile at people and watch their reactions
- Meditate and listen
- Go skydiving (Optional – I can understand if people find this a little extreme)
Generally, we try so hard to control everything in our life so we don’t experience anything that we would consider as bad. By choosing songwriting as a way to experience life, we can relax and allow our lives to unfold before our eyes, and then write a song about it.
If you look at your life this way you will never have to say “I don’t have anything to write about” ever again.
What do you think about songwriting as a way to experience more out of life?
What aspect of your life can you do different today? How would that change affect you? Can you write a song about it?
Just remember (even if it is for the sake of your songwriting process), don’t ever be afraid to fully experience your life, choose it.
Until next time, keep on writing,
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